How to Make Your Overseas Flight as Comfortable as Possible
I hate hunting for airline tickets. But I think I’d hate going to Europe by boat even more.
So I thought I’d offer some tips on airline ticket hunting. We’ve found amazing deals. We’ve also paid more than we wish to remember to get back and forth between the US and Germany. I hope this helps make your trip comfortable no matter how much you end up spending.

(jetlagged in London last June – our airline was on strike)
1. Flying abroad costs more around Christmas time and from late May to early October.
I think you know why. That’s when the weather is fantastic or Christmas markets abound. But truthfully, if we were going to be tourists in Germany, we’d go in April. The weather is usually beautiful, and the tourism isn’t overwhelming.
2. Avoid New York City.
I’m not sure why, but the experiences we have had at Newark are always awful. The employees (from customs agents to the FAA and gate agents) always seem so miserable. Maybe it’s the New York culture compared to what we’re used to in the west. Maybe it’s that the airport security systems didn’t actually fit in the structure. Maybe employees are overworked or uncomfortable. I really don’t know. But I will pay more to fly into any other city.
3. Try to get the fewest legs possible.
That’s for comfort’s sanity as you get tireder and tireder. If it costs a little more to have fewer legs, we think it’s worth it, especially if you’re flying to a new country for the first time.

(same jetlagged day in London. being pilots, we watch planes take off for “fun”. and then we take pictures to show other pilots… or put on Making This Home!)
4. Get a full night’s sleep before you leave.
Don’t take the first flight out; don’t get up at some crazy early hour to head to the airport. We’ve found that our bodies adapt best when we get a full rest. We don’t catch as many colds. We adjust to the new time faster. And yes, we’ve tinkered with this constantly!
The worst would be getting up to leave Europe early. It’s pretty common to have to get up at 4 or 5 in the morning to catch an early flight. What time is that in the US where you’re headed? 8:00 at night?
5. If you travel often, try to just fly with one airline whenever possible.
This is our current plan – building up and using frequent flier miles, using companion tickets… Our airline of choice? It’s German. Luftansa has never lost our bags, never lost stuff from inside our bags, never gone on strike, or never really messed up our schedules.
This strategy is our key for affording tickets.
Once we had tickets with United; our international flight was actually on Luftansa. Somehow, United didn’t get the information to Luftansa for our return flight. It was after a funeral, and we were so exhausted. The woman we were checking in with at Luftansa didn’t know our situation. Yet she actually bumped us up to first class on our flight from Frankfurt to Denver.
I feel like that describes our Luftansa experiences perfectly.
Oh and just an fyi – they’re the only airline that serves free alcohol inflight.

(after nine months abroad, this man at our last layover in June symbolized everything I was coming home to. I wanted to hug him; instead I took a picture.)
6. You can’t avoid jetlag no matter what anyone tells you.
Jetlag happens because of the body being at high altitudes. There are very strict aviation laws about this, which is why cabins are pressurized. (It’s also why little airplanes like the ones we fly cannot be above certain altitudes. We can only be at other altitudes for a small length of time.) By pressurizing the cabin where you sit, the airplane can create a feeling of an altitude much lower than where you are in the sky. But it doesn’t go all the way down to the types of altitudes where we live.
So you can’t avoid jetlag, but you can do things to make the transition overseas more comfortable. Drink lots of water, eat, exercise or move your body, and REST.

(in Berlin ages ago with an empty cart and no luggage. Huh.)
7. Bring noise canceling headphones if you travel a lot.
They’re worth their weight in gold when you want to watch movies or sleep. It’s already uncomfortable enough to sleep in airplanes, right?
Are there any tips you can offer? Any questions you might have?








April 25th, 2011 at 4:02 pm
I’ve been pondering noise-canceling headphones. I have a 24-hour travel day coming up, Denver to Tel Aviv. Oh lord.
April 25th, 2011 at 4:17 pm
Great tips – but I have to say, we’ve flown out of Newark once, (on our airline of choice – British Air – which also serves free alcohol in flight!), and had a terrific experience there…who knows! I also generally take the first flight I can – figuring I want to get to my destination sooner, AND there’s less likelihood of delays earlier in the day. :)
April 25th, 2011 at 4:28 pm
Christy, nice to hear your thumbs up perspective on British Air. They have hands-down provided the worst service in all our experiences. We’re also traveling about twice as far as you to get from/to the Rockies and Germany, which could just be multiplying the experience. I don’t know!
April 25th, 2011 at 4:36 pm
We’ve made international flights a lot (dual US/Australian citizens). Whether flying from the US to Australia or the US to Europe, we’ve always tried to book flights that got us to our destination in the morning. Even if we didn’t get a ‘nights’ sleep on the flight, if we stayed up for the day it seemed to make the transition to a new time zone more manageable. You really can’t under estimate having enough water to drink in flight. Nothing worse than being dehydrated to make you feel tired and cranky.
April 25th, 2011 at 7:08 pm
I have been in and out of both JFK and Newark (but not LaGaurdia) many times and never had a bad experience there. In fact the worst I’ve ever been treated in an airport was in the midwest, so so much for “midwest niceness”. I think it just depends on the airline and the particular person you get to deal with.
My favorite airline to fly is SAS – we’ve always found them polite, helpful, and understanding, especially when flying with kids.
April 25th, 2011 at 7:09 pm
Great tips! I have made dozens of flights over the ocean myself over the years, so I will add a few. :)
1. I second the recommendation to arrive at your destination in the morning, especially if the time difference from where you’re leaving is pretty big. You will adjust to a new time zone much faster if you spend your first day awake and out doing things. Don’t go to bed earlier than 7 pm in your new location.
2. If you have kids, bring their carseats on the plane (make sure they have the FAA sticker on them). Your kids will be safer and much more comfortable in their familiar carseats, which will make your life much easier.
3. Along the same lines, if you’re taking an overnight flight with small children, put them to bed on the plane just like you would at home. We always change our kids into their pajamas, brush teeth, read a story, sing a quiet song, and then tuck them into their carseats for the “night.” They feel more comfortable with the familiar routine and are more likely to sleep longer.
4. Bring your toiletries, pajamas, and change of clothes in your carry-on. If your luggage is lost, you will be so glad to have them. Voice of experience here.
5. Use Seatguru.com to find the best seats. It can make a difference on a long flight.
6. We always try to use the same airline, too, or at least airlines in the same alliance (OneWorld, for example, or Star) so we can accrue miles. We, too, almost always choose a foreign airline when possible. The service is just better (sorry, airlines of America!). Many of the Asian airlines offer free alcohol too. :)
7. I would also add: Avoid LAX. Holy moly, what a nightmare that place always is!
April 25th, 2011 at 11:46 pm
Funny, I’ve flown a variety of airlines, and I don’t think I’ve been on a Transatlantic flight that didn’t offer free (basic) alcohol… which kind of always is a catch 22 for me. It’s free. I like wine. Therefore, I want to drink it–but it goes against everything I know about staying hydrated and sleeping well. And I’ve only had good experiences in Newark. Oh, and the hands-down best food I’ve had in-flight wasn’t when I got bumped to first class on a major European airline recently (though that was tasty, abundant, and on real dishes!), but when I flew an Indian airline and got the vegetarian plate-that made my travel stomach so very happy.
And, confession… I have yet to fly Lufthansa. I’ve never found cheap tickets (at the right time) from them. So I’ll look forward to the day that happens, Katie!
April 26th, 2011 at 12:19 am
Ooh, and eye-masks for sleeping are brilliant. I don’t know why I’ve only just discovered that!
April 26th, 2011 at 1:04 am
If you can’t chew gum because of braces or just don’t like gum, use a straw in your water(beverage)
to help pop your ears. Koreana Air is quite nice for inflight amenities, flew Seoul to SF a couple of times.
I like Ryan Air for around in Europe. I like Luftansa from SF to Frankfurt. On flights now it’s nice to bring your own blanket, snacks and empty water bottle for the stewards to fill up.
If you need to travel with a baby, get the bulkhead seating and see if your airline offers a bassinet for the baby to rest in (British Airways did this back in 2001).
April 26th, 2011 at 2:19 am
We are Lufthansa fans as well -never had anything but good with them. I can’t say the same for any other carrier except for Southwest.
Low fare tip: Sign up for the emails from Lufthansa. Some of these special deals just don’t show up on sites like Kayak because they’re only for their email lists OR email people get advance notice of deals. This has saved us numerous times. Just a year and a half ago we had 2 round trip Christmas flights from FRA to Boston for $700 for BOTH tickets. Sure, we had to buy them in June, but we played that game and won.
Currently there are all sorts of Lufthansa 99 Euro roundtrip flights on offer within Europe. Could I pay cheaper for Ryan Air or something? Yes, but since I know those other airlines often have cancellations and delays and lost baggage and fly to out-of-the-way airports, I’ll keep my sanity and book with Lufthansa (and rack up miles…which just went towards a new ‘free’ iPod, hooray).
I’m married to a school teacher, so we can only travel during peak seasons when things are the most expensive. However, this also lets us plan in advance -keeping our sanity and helping us budget for things as well. The Lufthansa email list has been a big help in getting us between Europe and the US at lower prices.
I have to say Kayak.com has also been great for cheap flights and car rentals.
April 26th, 2011 at 8:33 am
AWESOME tips! Will for sure bookmark. My only additional tip is travel light. I like to say there’s two kinds of luggage, the kind that arrives and the kind that you check. CARRY ON ONLY people. There are plenty of websites with great suggestions on how to pack less, so I won’t bore you, but I can’t stress how many headaches you will save by just using a carryon. Happy travels:D
April 26th, 2011 at 8:57 am
Great post, Katie!
For in-flight comfort:
1. Pack satin eye masks, you’ll sleep like a baby.
2. Pack an inexpensive dark-colored pashmina, which can be used as a pillow cover for scratchy airline pillows, a soft in-flight blanket and can be used a stylish wrap to help you look more put together upon arrival.
3. Pack an oversized pair of thick wool socks (kind like a hiking/camping style. Once you are in flight, take off your shoes and put the wool socks over your own socks for the remainder of the trip. This helps your circulation, especially when you walk around in them in the cabin, and will help fight some fatigue later. (Wear your shoes into the bathroom, though!) I learned this tip years ago and it really works. We each have a pair of “flight socks” at our house.
4. Drink water like it is going out of style. Your jet lag will thank you later.
April 26th, 2011 at 9:21 am
Is there a formula for when to buy tix if you’re planning ahead? We want to fly in October…
April 26th, 2011 at 1:27 pm
I am reading some wonderful tips from you and your readers!
We have traveled overseas only twice – both times to China. All I can say for sure is this: If you have a connecting flight in the U.S. AFTER coming back from overseas, be sure that you leave enough time between flights to make it through Customs/Immigration. We thought 2 hours was enough time, but got hung up in Immigration. We missed our connecting flight and had to spend the night in Chicago. Of course, I suppose most folks don’t have to go through Immigration. We did, but only because both our trips were adoption trips. I have no clue what a normal overseas trip might be like, but I hope to learn someday. So I am going to bookmark these tips as well!
April 27th, 2011 at 8:32 am
Corene, I don’t know any October tricks. It’s been years since we flew at that time of year. I guess I’d just suggest keeping your eyes open. October is right between the two busy seasons, so you might catch an awesome deal or not.
Katie
April 27th, 2011 at 8:32 am
Ooooh I’m loving these tips! I haven’t ever tried an eye mask. Hmmm…
April 30th, 2011 at 3:07 am
I completely agree about Newark — the one time I flew in, from Heathrow, they made about HALF the arriving passengers open their bags for another search. That’s crazy; we got searched at Heathrow! And it was late at night, we were exhausted (being jetlagged five hours ahead), and the guards were really gruff. Blech.
Noise cancelling headphones are great — and might I recommend the best sleeping pill ever? It’s the autobiography of William Shatner, as read by William Shatner. Borrowed it from my library, and man, his voice is SOOTHING.
Also, I try to avoid alcohol when I travel, just because it whacks out my restless leg syndrome (yup — try THAT on a long flight. It’s awful), but also messes with my ability to fall asleep and stay asleep. xx
May 18th, 2011 at 3:41 pm
Jet lag is not caused by altitude, but by quick long-distance transmeridian travel.