Learning to Love Cooking + Peek in the Pantry
The good news is you probably won’t get the munchies when you peek into our cupboards. The bad news is that I’m going to have to figure out what to do about lunch here pretty soon.
It’s not all bad, though. I’ve learned to love being the chief chef in our house. (Write that ten times!)

That’s our kitchen here in the ol’ recycled tire house. Behind all those plastered walls are tires. The ceiling beams are lumber killed by pine beetle. Martin and I don’t use most of this kitchen. Coming from a 36-square-foot space in Berlin, we just haven’t quite figured out a need for a big kitchen.
Swing your head a little to the left with me because there’s still more kitchen. That’s it. Here’s what’s to the left of the fridge.

Yes. I totally stuck the coffee maker way up there. We’re just not coffee drinkers.
This house is fully stocked for the owner – including a couple cupboards of food. But we’ve managed to carve out our own little corner of staples.

I’m not sure how “American” our eating is. It’s certainly not very German, either. Over the years, we’ve been discovering a system that’s certainly us, and it’s constantly evolving. I thought I’d share some of that journey and some super cool tips with you today. It’s not every day you hear about a not-so-into-cooking gal become a cooking fanatic…
** 2006 **
We used to eat a lot of packaged vegetarian food. Neither of us knew how to cook or had the time.
When we were visiting Martin’s family in Germany, it suddenly fell on me to make a few meals. Every American staple I knew – from packaged foods to cheddar cheese or tortillas and taco shells – was nowhere to be found.
Let’s just say: word traveled fast amongst all those European women. ”Martin’s wife CAN’T COOK worth a darn.” Can you just see them shaking their heads in sorrow?
** 2008 **
So when my corporate work schedule loosened up a little, I pulled out How to Cook Everything Vegetarian and Vegetarian Cooking For Everyone. Then I began cooking new recipes every night for an entire month. How does the old saying go? If you can’t communicate through words, communicate through food.
(Okay – so I think I just made that up! You get the idea, though. I still didn’t know an ounce of German.)
You could say it was a lot like Julie and Julia without any of that French stuff. If there were one thing I knew: cooking French food wasn’t going to relax anyone I knew in Europe.

My challenge began on January 1, 2008. Those 31 days of cooking changed my perspective on cooking. And oh yes – Martin totally got into my new project, too. He even got me a handmade apron on Etsy. It was love.

Sometimes making meals was a horrible, horrible chore – especially with a new recipe EVERY day. Yet the other days were really fun. Cooking started to become something I loved to do. It was a hobby that could immediately benefit everyone.
There was no turning back. Our family had its very own cook!
** 2011 **
Fast forward some more, and today I’m happy to report that we don’t really eat many packaged foods anymore. That’s why our cupboards look like this:

Now don’t get me wrong. There are days when I still absolutely DREAD making meals. That doesn’t ever go away.
I can usually get into dinner making after a few minutes of poking around the kitchen. Other times, we’re going to have that grilled cheese sandwich. Yes we are!
No staging for photos here. That’s how our cupboard looks. We save the Nancy’s yogurt containers and glass jars. A quick wash in the dishwasher, and they’re ready to store food.

About once a week, I cook a bunch of beans, maybe some bread, and granola. The beans go in the freezer in smaller proportions, and the granola lands in this jar:

Those are German influences. I’ve never seen cans of beans in Germany; we have to cook them ourselves. So I just started doing it in the United States, too.
Our favorite breakfast-on-the-go in Germany was muesli and yogurt. It was much cheaper there. Now we can’t justify the cost of muesli or granola in the United States. So I just make it. (My recipe is loosely based on the one in this thumbs-up cookbook.)
On Sundays, I try to make a big meal like lasagna so we’ve got leftovers throughout the week. It’s a tradition carried down in my family from relatives who immigrated from Germany. I don’t know which culture that idea came from, but it’s absolutely the best ever.
You don’t have to be on top of cooking every day to have homemade food.

I swear there were some treats in here last week. Martin?!
You can’t really see it, but the middle section of this cupboard is all nuts, honeys, and peanut or almond butters that we’ve poured into jars. When I shop at bulk food grocery stores, I’ll just bring the jar to fill instead of getting a plastic bag or tub.
Jane’s idea of using fabric bags (from her etsy shop!) for bulk shopping is next on my must-try list.
Now that we live in rural America, we can’t get takeout or have a pizza delivered. The nearest restaurant – a country restaurant – is 20 minutes away. We’ll totally go for grilled cheese sandwiches (again!) or tortillas with beans and cheese on those nights when we’re craving a break.

Guests know they’ll be getting a homemade dinner at our house. There’s a good chance we’ll be using quinoa, kale, and other not so common foods. (People keep coming back, and no one has died yet.) Sometimes they even roll up their sleeves and help, like with the graham cracker making project last summer.
Here are some of our favorite international recipes.
I guess it just came down to realizing one thing around here. If we wanted to save money and manage eating in two very different food cultures, someone had to cook – like honestly, actually cook. And when it came to my European relatives’ perspective… it had to be me.
(Just don’t tell them that Martin jumps in pretty often, too!) In fact, just last night, he did a wonderful job taste testing these cookies.
We had to replenish the stock, you know!

Our life has become so much easier when we know who is doing the grocery shopping and cooking and who is doing all the other hundreds of tasks of running a home. I’m just so glad I’ve learned to really love this responsibility.
I’d say there was victory last year in Berlin. My mother-in-law was about to head off to a fancy dinner. But first? She joined us for some of the dinner I had made. I still can’t get over it.
Good food. Good friends. Good approval from the in-laws. What more could you ask for?








March 2nd, 2011 at 1:11 pm
“People keep coming back, and no one has died yet.” This made me laugh! My family is so afraid of my “strange” vegetarian cooking ~ you know with weird ingredients like black beans, spinach and carrots! {insert spooky music} LOL!
Thanks for posting this! It was a fun, charming peek into your life! :D
March 2nd, 2011 at 1:59 pm
What fun to have a peek in your pantry and hear your cooking autobiography!
Sometimes I cook myself into trouble with a nearly bare pantry–experimental meals that I really don’t feel like finishing, often followed by chocolate deliciousness (with only myself around to eat it) to compensate for the lame meal. Most recently is was: toast some coconut flakes and oats in melted butter, add equal amounts cocoa powder and white sugar, a bit more butter and a splash of milk to get it to a workable consistency, then let it cool/harden in a tupperware. The upside of making my own creation is, instead of reading grams of fat on a package, I know (roughly) how much butter I plopped into that pan….
March 2nd, 2011 at 3:52 pm
You’re starting to sound like homemaker (wink, wink).
March 2nd, 2011 at 4:05 pm
My biggest complaint about cooking “from scratch” is the amount of dishes that it creates! My dear husband is not a huge help in the clean-up dept,…
Does Martin help? With either the cooking or the cleaning?
March 2nd, 2011 at 4:34 pm
I taught myself to cook when Jason was in grad school, and now I’m pretty good at it! I don’t really use recipes, I just kind of make things up as I go and they almost always turn out great. I have a TON of cookbooks that I should actually use or get rid of though, lol! :)
March 2nd, 2011 at 4:40 pm
Renee, I used to argue with my German teacher all the time. “I am not a hausfrau. I am not a hausfrau.”
Okay… I kind of am.
March 2nd, 2011 at 4:45 pm
Karen, did you ever live in a place without a dishwasher? We HATED washing dishes, so I think I’ve become a cooking minimalist. The spoon that’s used to stir food or table knife to cut things becomes the thing I probably eat with at dinner. We seem to use the same two cups all day long, too. I think it’s those little things that make the dishes manageable.
Martin will cook/clean. At some point when we were in Germany and I realized how long it was going to take for me to speak the local language, I came to a conclusion. I wanted his career to thrive, so the best thing I could do would be taking on all the household things were were sharing (or skipping).
Yeah… kind of hausfrau-ish.
A German couple I know has a system. He who makes dinner does not have to clean it up. The other person does. It’s working really well for them.
Hope that might help a little.
Katie
March 2nd, 2011 at 6:31 pm
Great post Katie! :)
March 2nd, 2011 at 7:28 pm
Another Karen here………
I enjoyed this post, Katie. I love to see what goes on people’s kitchens. I love new recipes and love to see what others like to eat, especially, healthy food stuff, but all of it is good to me.
I love to cook, but still have days that I “dread” it. You know, nothing sounds good or I’m uninspired, or just not in the mood. I actually like eating at home better. I’m glad you learned to cook. I think everyone should learn how to cook from scratch, not just for survival but for health and financial reasons, too.
Anyway……….
I have a question, maybe a dumb one but I was wondering when you take your own jars with you for your honey, peanut butter, etc., don’t you get charged for the weight? I, too, wanted to take my own jar in for honey, but the weight would make it more expensive unless it’s plastic. How do you handle this? Thanks!
March 2nd, 2011 at 7:31 pm
Karen,
Stores that sell bulk foods should have a digital scale in the bulk section. At our coop, you weigh your empty jar and write down the weight on the tag you’ll be writing your bulk number code on. The clerk deducts the jar weight. In some places, they even give you a 5 cent refund or bag refund for bringing your own container.
I hope that helps. I was totally the girl watching a young couple with jars not too long ago, trying to make sure I did it right!
Katie
March 2nd, 2011 at 8:22 pm
I understand the rural America thing. The closest grocery store is about 15 minutes away from me so I can’t just hop over to the store if I need something for dinner. It requires a lot of planning and a lot of learning how to cook simply.
March 3rd, 2011 at 5:32 am
I really liked this post. I need to be better about how I organize our little fridge/freezer b/c it’s been making me feel stumped on storing extra food/leftovers–thereby making me frustrated with having to make a big cooking deal every single day. Basically I’m wishing for a larger freezer so I can do bulk cooking and rotate ‘leftovers’ more often. Going to have to review some of your other pointers in the meantime!
March 4th, 2011 at 4:26 am
Never saw canned beans in Germany?! Girl, where were you doing your grocery shopping? Every Aldi and Netto (formally Plus) has canned kidney beans, and every Turisk grocery store has chic peas, white beans, and usually a couple of other canned varieties. I eat so many canned beans here that I am totally shocked imagining you never having come across them here. All the same, cooking them yourself IS better as far as taste and packaging go. :)
March 4th, 2011 at 4:27 am
*that should say Turkish, not Turisk whoops
March 4th, 2011 at 7:06 am
Interesting, clickclackgorilla. You’re the first person in Germany who has told me that you’ve found beans already cooked (except at Turkish markets). Awesome, awesome.
I’ve never seen them at Aldi or Netto in any part of Germany where I’ve been. Wow!
March 10th, 2011 at 9:12 am
Love what you write!
I have the same the story as you. However, mine went from cooking twice a year to cooking 3x per week within this year! (as I am currently on maternity leave) Although, I am VERY blessed with a husband who does most of the cooking, and he needed me to help out more while he was working on his MBA which just ended last week. Feels good to feed friends and family, now that it isn’t so stressful and that my confidence has grown by leaps and bounds in the kitchen :-)
Congrats to you! (especially with the in-laws coming back for more!)
September 19th, 2011 at 1:10 am
You have a very organized kitchen cabinets. Cooking is sometimes tedious but when you see your family enjoying our dishes, it gives us satisfaction.