3 Steps Toward Simplicity I Learned in Europe
It’s no mystery to Martin and me that living in Europe has had a profound connection to our choices to simplify our load so we could enjoy living more. I was a little surprised this summer to find that while we’re back in the United States, there are some of those ol’ European habits that came back with us. They’re stubborn little guys. And frankly, I’m so glad that they are. Here are three very non-American habits we’ve sticking to in our path toward simplicity.

1. We use a 24-hour clock.
Raise your hand if you’ve ever accidentally set your alarm clock to go off at 6 pm instead of 6 am. (My hand is waaaaay up!) In Germany, there is no such thing as 6 pm; that’s 18 o’clock. I still remember pulling the mouse of my computer up to change my computer clock to 24 hours last year. You know the old saying: when in Rome, you’ve gotta do what the Romans are doing.
All of the signs on Berlin shops were on 24 hour clocks. My classmates in German class all spoke in 24 hour time. It was really hard to adjust to a 24 hour clock for about a week. I kept messing up 6:00 pm with 16:00 (which is 4 pm). Now I’m never going back. And I’m also never going to accidentally set my alarm clock for the wrong time of day ever, ever again, which was so worth the week-long struggle.
2. We buy whole fat foods.
At our grocery store here in the US, everything is labeled “fat free!!” and “low fat!”. But have you noticed? The more fat companies take out, the more sweeteners and salts they usually add to our food. I think if I had asked for fat free yogurt at our German grocery store, they would have given me a hard kick right out of the place. (The “low fat” milk there is 1.5% fat.) Some fats are really good for our bodies. I happily buy the high fat yogurt (which is dang hard to find in the US, unfortunately). It tastes sooo much better. It isn’t full of sugars, though you have to read labels to be sure. I think the Germans know what they’re doing with this fatty food business. (Have you seen how SKINNY they are?!)
3. We walk more.
The 8-year-old little girl down the road asked me, “Why do you always walk?” She’d seen me walking the long dirt road to the mailbox several times. ”I like to,” I told her. ”And it’s good for me.” She just shrugged and said, “Oh. We just drive.”
So there you have it! Too American to be German. Too German to always feel American. Have any of you picked up simple habits that raise the traditional 8-year-old eyebrows in your neighborhood?








August 16th, 2010 at 10:19 am
Erik set his clocks to 24-hour time about a year ago, and it *still* confuses me, but it sure helped when we visited Hong Kong, because we were both more or less used to it!
I’ve begun walking more, too, even to places I have to drive to: I park the car blocks away and then walk from there. Sometimes it’s a pain when I’m tired, but mostly it just feels good. And I’ve noticed my stamina for any kind of exercise is lots better now.
My favorite simple habits have to do with “beauty”: I don’t blow-dry my hair, I moisturize once in the morning with a combination lotion and sunblock, and that’s it. I used to spend a lot more time on makeup and things like that, but my skin is much happier without all that stuff, and I need those extra minutes to spend on things like drawing and writing! :)
August 16th, 2010 at 10:49 am
I completely understand how you feel about walking. I try to ride my bike or walk everywhere and some people think that I am crazy.
A few years ago, a little neighbor girl was so surprised that I had never been to a particular restaurant in town. The difference is that her semi-wealthy family eats out several times a week, while I choose to make my own meals by scratch for both health and financial reasons. When I do go out to eat, I choose restaurants that serve healthy food that I enjoy.
August 16th, 2010 at 11:36 am
Wonderful tips=) The thing I love about spring, summer & fall is that I can walk & bike everywhere, I find it so refreshing to get around that way=)
August 16th, 2010 at 11:44 am
Have any of you picked up simple habits that raise the traditional 8-year-old eyebrows in your neighborhood?
Have I???? Oh boy, where do I begin!?! Not just the 8 yr old eyebrows either. Try the adult ones too! (might not all be simple habits, but I’ll still share)
Let’s see:
1. COMPOSTING (don’t know for sure, but looks like we are the only house on the street that does this)
2. RECYCLING (we are the only regulars, and our town takes ALMOST EVERYTHING)
The following are things I’ve done w/out my husband, and have been the subject of me getting weird looks.
3. power washing the porch, deck & siding
4. staining the front porch
5. working on the landscaping around our home
I’m sure there are more, but I can’t think of them right now.
Oh I also don’t blow dry my hair unless it’s a special occasion and I rarely wear makeup anymore.
August 16th, 2010 at 1:01 pm
My husband and I are expecting our first child in September, and I’m planning to use cloth diapers. This has definitely raised some eyebrows from friends and family!! I also don’t buy paper towels (I have a rag stash), air dry a good bit of our laundry, make my own general purpose cleaning solution, and we use cloth napkins. I’m fascinated by small house living, and would love the opportunity to live in Europe. I feel so out of place sometimes here in America!! I definitely go against the “bigger is better” mentality.
August 16th, 2010 at 1:27 pm
Sandy, Young House Love has a great post on cloth diapering–if you haven’t read everything already!
Forgot to mention that we also use mostly rags (paper towels on hand for the REALLY gross messes, thank you cats!), and we also air-dry much of our laundry. And I’m NOT a shopper!
August 16th, 2010 at 2:28 pm
I have a question about the 24 hour clock. I understand how it would work on a digital clock, but please explain how this works on an analog clock. I was just going to change my clock, but realized I couldn’t!
August 16th, 2010 at 2:58 pm
Jennifer, that’s actually a good question! There isn’t a way to switch an analog clock. In that case, it’s more of a mental switch you have to make. When Martin and I speak to each other, we’ll still say “6:00″ instead of “18:00″ for example since that’s what we’re used to. It helps to go both ways – and switching digital clocks is the way to mentally do it. So huge luck to you!
Katie
August 16th, 2010 at 3:42 pm
#1 and #2 are exactly the same for me. After spending a year living in various places in Europe, I now prefer 24-hour time and full-fat yogurt (which is sometimes impossible to find!). And I get weird looks from some Americans for both of those things. But it’s also pretty entertaining to see the dumbstruck looks when anyone tries to use my clocks. :-)
August 16th, 2010 at 9:16 pm
You’re right about the fatty foods! I have the hardest time finding kefir and yogurt that aren’t low- or no-fat. I wish this were not the case.
August 16th, 2010 at 11:01 pm
After living in Europe for 3 years, back in the States for 5, and then back overseas, one of the habits that my husband and I have kept is using cash only except for things that we can pay online or checks that need to be mailed. We keep a fairly strict cash budget, and manage to save a lot that way.
We also use cloth diapers, I make my almost-7-month old’s baby food, we air dry our laundry, and we used to recycle (we can’t now because there’s nowhere to take your goods here in Istanbul). In the States we only drove one car and my husband walked to work. We walked to our classes. We lived in a 480 square foot apartment by choice. People usually think we’re strange: we’re just trying to live our lives in a way that shows God we’re grateful for what He’s given us.
August 17th, 2010 at 8:01 am
I’m fascinated by everyone talking about rags instead of paper towels. That’s a switch I would LOVE to make. Do you throw them out after you use them, or wash and reuse? I kind of worry about having cat-stained, food-stained rags sitting around the laundry hamper…?
August 17th, 2010 at 9:12 am
Satsumabug, I’ll talk about our approach to that exact problem in the next week or so – stay tuned!
Katie
August 17th, 2010 at 1:01 pm
We also recently made the switch from paper towels to rags. We wash and re-use them. The only time I have missed paper towels is when we clean glass/windows but you can use newspaper, which we don’t buy but pick up for free at a store. We just rinse off the rags. They do stain but who cares if you just use them for cleaning.
August 17th, 2010 at 1:55 pm
Does anyone use the cloth toilet wipes, the 4×4 squares of fabric for toilet paper? We live in the country and it’s a 30 min drive one way to the nearest store. So I found an article about them and did it! Only for #1 . We use so much less store bought paper now> I have a small container I store them in and and once a week when doing laundry I just wash them hang them out on the line to dry. The girls at work think I’m crazy but people use cloth diapers so why not cloth tee tee pads as I call them!
August 17th, 2010 at 3:52 pm
Satsumabug–I only throw them out if they are REALLY gross. I had this one that I used on our garage window–hadn’t been cleaned in years by the previous owners, so it was covered in all sorts of muck. That was TOSSED!
For cat issues–for the litter box, it has a liner (like a plastic bag) that I throw away monthly, then I use Nature’s Miracle to clean out the actual box. I’ll use a rag to wipe that out, and then wash it. For real messes, like when they miss the box, or throw up…it’s paper towels, pleaseandthanks.
Most of the time, I just wash over and over and over again. I put them in a wire bin that we have near our washer, and wash them with things that I don’t care so much about, like towels.
August 20th, 2010 at 8:35 am
Thank you so much for the info, Rabbit and everyone else! Katie, can’t wait for the post on this topic. :) I’ve got plenty of un-craft-worthy scrap fabric around and will be excited to use it!
August 24th, 2010 at 3:24 pm
Clothesline!! I grew up in the country and now live in the city. I have a clothesline on my back porch. Even my boyfriend doesn’t understand it. He asked, “Do you do it to save money or the environment or because you like it?” All three! I’ve read from many sources that the electric dryer is one of the biggest energy users in the home ($ and environment) and I LIKE the smell of line-dried sheets. I like to see my homemade cleaning rags and cloth napkins dancing in the breeze. And on the super hot August afternoons here in Oklahoma (with 115 F heat index), it can take less time for a load to dry on the line than in the dryer. I love catching a whiff of a long-gone summer in some sheets I pull out in February, too!
September 4th, 2010 at 7:00 am
Hi I just wanted to say I enjoy reading about your experiences in Europe, on small space living, and eco friendly living. I read that you’re in the Rocky Mountain Region (for now) and wanted to let you know there is an amazing yoghurt being produced in Colorado called Noosa. It is full fat an amazing! So if you’re in Colorado I’m sure it would available to you at a local store (King Soopers carries them). http://www.noosayoghurt.com/
September 8th, 2010 at 5:20 am
Hi there – found your blog by accident and enjoyed reading it. I, too, am an American in Germany (Stuttgart) and our family completely agrees with your “simplicity” approach – we walk everywhere and buy the “fatty” foods. They DO taste better!
Also dry via clothesline and take the bus/bahn to work everyday.
Enjoy Europe!
October 7th, 2010 at 9:20 am
“A The more fat companies take out, the more sweeteners and salts they usually add to our food. I think if I had asked for fat free yogurt at our German grocery store, they would have given me a hard kick right out of the place. (The “low fat” milk there is 1.5% fat.) Some fats are really good for our bodies. re?!)”
Amen.
If you buy fat free you will actually become fat ;-).
So the point is to eat real food not food from the lab. And to eat less and move more.