A Country Morning

The sun was shining this morning, so I walked to the mailbox and took photos along the way. No matter how many thunderstorms or rainy days we seem to be having, I always notice: every day we get a little bit of sun. We could go whole weeks in Berlin without a moment of sunshine. Some mornings I wanted to scratch and scratch at the clouds until I could see the sun.
I’ve heard people here complaining about all of the rain and lack of sun the last few days. Really? I just smile at them, trying to remember if I put moisturizer + sunscreen on this morning.
It’s weird to find myself settling so comfortably into life in the Rocky Mountains again. I don’t feel like I have been knocked down with overwhelming culture shock like I was the first time Martin and I came back to the US. Rather, my thoughts seem more like, “Oh yeah… I remember that.” Or “Why is it again that everybody does that here?”
One thing I would change about where we are is cell phones. People should not be driving with them. Because every time someone is swerving all around the interstate and highway or driving really weird, they are on the phone. Pilots will tell you that flying somewhere is always safer than driving. Why? A huge reason is because of other people. You have the sky to yourself.
Of course, I also don’t have a cell phone.

I managed to jump into the driver’s seat of the car without troubles after months and months of not driving. A couple miles of gravel roads certainly warmed me up before I pulled onto the highway to head to the grocery store.
I forgot to buy vanilla. I was standing right next to it while watching a group of 10-12 year-old Scouts prepare for their camping trip. They were going down the list, sending one boy for a bag of marshmallows, two boys for three potatoes, another boy for aluminum foil. It was all very exciting. I wanted to follow the marshmallow boy.
S’mores are such an American thing. marshmallows+chocolate+graham crackers+campfire = perfect summer!
I had to teach some German friends how to make s’mores last summer. I was at a loss for words. It’s one of those things you just assume everyone knows – like it’s in your blood. But as far as I know now, it is North American blood that runs thick with ooey-gooey campfire-ness. I never knew that until we started jumping over the pond and actually living in two different worlds.
I seem to be learning this a lot.
One Scout got distracted from his mission. He was the carrots boy. An elderly man was trying to find sunflower seeds. So off that little boy went to help the man. I thought, “YES! That is exactly why I love this country! Go little Scout, go!”
Now before you say, “Yo, Katie! People help each other in Germany,” hold on a second. I know that. But I do not always catch it. I love the US because I can catch all those good things. I understand every word. The gestures people have here are the same that I have – same smile, arm movement, little nods. I love being back home because I understand those things.
And I don’t always understand that in Germany. For instance, my friendly “hallos!” were NOT SO FRIENDLY in the perspective of the elderly woman in my building because I should have been saying, “Guten Tag.” Oopsie.
Then again, there is no challenge in daily life in the US for people like me who grew up here. I can go to the post office and say, “One stamp please!” In Germany, I have to look up the word for stamp before I leave the house. Then I have to repeat it to myself over and over so I don’t forget.

It’s the little things. The more I notice them, the more I realize how beautiful life is. You really just have to appreciate the bits where you are. And I find that no matter where I am, there are always so many beautiful bits.
So in a couple of weeks when I drive back to “the big city”, I will need to get vanilla. In the meantime, I’m exploring almond extract and stamping everything in the house with the new Gadanke stamp that was waiting for me in the mailbox this morning.
What about in your world? What are a few of the moments of beauty you are discovering?








June 18th, 2010 at 1:56 pm
I love your posts comparing US to Germany. It is so fun to get a glimpse of what that is like. It makes me look at things in a whole new perspective. I am a regular reader of your blog for this very reason. I have never commented before, but couldn’t help it this time. When I found out you were coming back to the US I was crossing my fingers that you’d do some culture shock posts! Thank you!!
June 18th, 2010 at 6:24 pm
Today I was outside with the kids on a fabulously beautiful day and got to thinking about our trees. We live in an old house and we have these lovely old trees. They are tall and graceful and give us dappled shade across most of the yard. There was a gray catbird singing his heart out in the ash tree and it seemed to me to be a perfect day. What a blessing it is to have days like this and to have a lovely place to live them in.
June 19th, 2010 at 12:05 am
Hello – from a fellow “flying Lessons” classmate! Wow – it looks like you live in a very beautiful part of the US! As for moments of beauty? Well it is the perfect winter day here – a light cloud covering and 21 degrees (celcius) gentle warm sun on my skin and a lovely walk along the beach with my children – pretty nice! Thanks for such an honest and lovely post – I’ll be back to see how you go putting your work into a show or shop :)
x donna
June 19th, 2010 at 5:10 am
Congratulations to your blog. Great work what you did with your kitchen.
I share your feelings about living in different countries. Especially when coming home one appreciates some details which one would have never given a thought about without having lived abroad.
Happy holidays
PS: Is Gadanke a creation or should it read Gedanke, meaning thought, idea?
June 19th, 2010 at 5:29 am
Ahhh, the challenge in daily life part struck me. Yesterday, I was in an HTML training class at work, along with a few coworkers, one of those being a man who is (I believe) Russian. Regardless of where he is from or his native language, English is NOT his first language. He is a programmer, so he knows “computer language” but didn’t know HTML. Watching him ask questions and try to understand what we were doing made me very grateful that I already knew the language of the class, and that it wasn’t a 2 stepped removed process, like it was for him. His English is good, but I’m sure there was a struggle for him. Especially when he was asking the instructor questions and the instructor wasn’t sure exactly what he was trying to say. Learning new things is hard enough, but doing them in a language that’s not your first, or not one you are very confident in, must be SO SO challenging.
I think you’ve been doing an excellent job at detailing what it’s like to learn a new language while living in that language (esp. at the dentist!), but seeing this first hand yesterday gave me a different viewpoint of what it’s truly like.
June 19th, 2010 at 8:40 am
What beautiful thoughts! Rabbit – I think you have witnessed what I so often try to describe.
Gotoflo – you can read the crazy little story of what Gadanke means/how I came up with the name right here:
http://gadanke.bigcartel.com/faq
Thanks for the inspiring thoughts, ladies!
Katie
June 19th, 2010 at 3:41 pm
What a poetic explanation, thank you
June 20th, 2010 at 4:06 am
As far as I know we don’t have scout groups here but I would love to see some!
I like to eat those munchmallows but they are produced in Europe, I guess american products have a different taste
http://www.balkanonlineshop.com/images/munchmallow.jpg
and then my version to bake a cake like that
http://i11.tinypic.com/4uasg0h.jpg
June 21st, 2010 at 7:23 am
Hi Katie-
I’m a fellow flyer (from Kelly Rae’s class. Not a pilot. Although that would be sooooo cooooool!) and loved reading this post. We recently moved to Mud Butte, SD to the family ranch. We live 45 miles from the closest grocery store by really do our shopping 100 miles away in Rapid City.
I can relate to the culture shock thing in a way. I moved from my hometown in Hawaii to MT when I was 19. Then from MT out here to SD. Even within the United States there are many different opportunities for culture shock. But you certainly learn alot about yourself, don’t you?
Nice to meet you!
jenn
June 21st, 2010 at 9:06 am
My husband and I hiked up at Lory State Park yesterday, the flowers have never been lovelier! Imagine bright orange gaillardia, blue delphinium, yellow blooming prickly pear cactus, yuccas in full bloom, penstemons, sedums, spiderworts…… I haven’t even gotten to all the native trees and shrubs. This wet winter and spring has also brought us a profusion of frogs along with butterflies galore, I would have loved to snap a picture of a small periwinkle blue butterfly against the yellow flower of an aster but I wasn’t quick enough. The smell of the Ponderosa pines and all that blue sky, summer I welcome you!
June 28th, 2010 at 11:49 pm
If you have rum and a vanilla bean you can make your own vanilla. http://chocolateandzucchini.com/archives/2009/02/homemade_vanilla_extract.php
My kids are smores freaks. My daughter just went camping with a friend and came home with a new version: marshmallows, Reeses peanut butter cups and graham crackers. I’ve yet to try it but it sounds delectable.
Welcome back to the US!