We’re Doing It.
Martin and I have been thinking.
We’ve decided to tip on our cowboy hats and spend the summer in the United States.

I keep saying, “We’re going home for the summer.”
But is that home?
I thought Berlin was home.
So I do not know if a person can call two very different places home.
(Do not ask me what “home” means!)
I only know one thing.
I’m scared.
Last time we went back to the US, I was hit with really bad culture shock. Ohhh – it was so bad!
I was back in the world that I knew. But I didn’t understand it any more.

I remember more details about those first 24 hours back in the US than any other 24 hours in my life.
From speaking German to the AMERICAN flight attendants because I couldn’t remember how to speak English to strangers.
To feeling overwhelmed by waaaay too many choices for a toothbrush at Safeway at 11 pm when our luggage did not arrive.
To watching the clerk at the organic grocery store sniff my tea selections.
Then there was the sheriff who had his hat on the chair where I was going sit for breakfast. ”Pardon me, ma’am.”
All of the bright clothing at Old Navy had me squinting and covering my eyes when I needed to buy some pajamas.
Everyone was so loud.
Everyone kept talking to me.
I think culture shock really happens when you return to a place that you know. (well… knew. A place that you knew.) Culture shock isn’t something that happens on vacations or when you first move somewhere. That’s because everything is new and exciting.
So I am scared. But I’m also really excited.
Martin and I will get to do more of this:

(By that, I mean camping and hiking, not climbing across dead trees that hang off cliffs, MARTIN!)
And of course this:

Ooooh yes!
I’ll see people I love.
(EEEEH!)
I’ll grow the journal shop.
And you know what?
I’ll never go to the grocery store only to discover it is closed for a holiday that I didn’t know about.
(Do American grocery stores ever close now? So much to re-learn!)
I’ll understand everything people are saying.
Oh man… I will understand EVERYTHING.
The Decluttering Project will continue. I’d working overtime to get it put together before I start thinking about packing up. I’m picking out chocolates to bring back for people, and I am oh-so-thankful to have all of you on this journey with me. Martin and I will be living in the countryside again, and I have some great plans to share with all of you. Yeehaw!
Everyone here in Berlin keeps asking us about cowboys. Germans are addicted. Cowboys, cowboys, cowboys! I smile and tell them, “Yes! We’ll be around cowboys all the time.” We’re excited to go to the rodeo again, camp in national forests, make our own yummy marshmallows and graham crackers for homemade s’mores, and eat America’s amazing cheddar cheese and Puffins breakfast cereal.

Here’s what’s planned in the next few months: A little simplifying. A little German lifestyle meshed with a dash of western style. A little cooking. A little decluttering and handmade. And a whole lot of embracing life because that’s exactly what I hope we can all do this summer. I think you’ll love what’s coming up! Meanwhile, I’m practicing my “Howdy there!”.
We’ll see you on the other side here shortly.








June 10th, 2010 at 3:46 am
Oh that sounds delightful! And your hopefully guaranteed better weather than in Germany ;) (though saying that you guys had fantastic weather last weekend)
and yes you can call two places home! i have home in ireland and i have home home (as in Essen, Germany) and both are equally valid homes to me :) so go for it and call both home.
i think the definition home is where my (current) bed is is the the easiest definition
June 10th, 2010 at 5:31 am
Fantastic! Now I’m envious because I wish I could spend the summer in the country, working on handmade stuff and not slaving away in my cubicle at work. (This is something that is really, really starting to wear on me lately.)
Yes, you can call both places home. Home is where your loved ones are!
June 10th, 2010 at 5:39 am
When we returned to the US from Italy I went through EXACTLY what you’re talking about. For me in the grocery store it was deodorant… I kept thinking, there is an entire aisle of deodorant… 15 feet by 3 feet of shelf space is devoted to DEODORANT. I was paralyzed by the choices! I even took a photo. And the salsas… oh my word, black bean salsa and peach salsa and mango salsa and 15 brands of each!
The other thing that REALLY bothered me/freaked me out was understanding all the stupid and inane things that people say to each other in public. Not that they don’t say stupid things in Italy, but because I had less of a grasp on the language I could kind of “tune it out” and only pay attention to what I wanted to pay attention to. So to suddenly be able/have to understand EVERYTHING that EVERYONE was saying around me was completely and totally overwhelming! For weeks, everywhere I went I just thought, “Oh, shut up, nobody cares, be quiet!” LOL, not very kind, but that’s how I felt.
And the roads–jeez Louise, why do the roads here have to be so WIDE? People can wander back and forth within their lanes and it freaked me out… stop moving around so much, are you changing lanes, are you about to cause an accident, why are you moving around so much? And of course the CARS and TRUCKS that are ENORMOUS. The first time I saw an Expedition I was appalled. I mean, APPALLED… personally offended on behalf of the planet! And everyone on their cell phones and eating and doing everything but just paying attention to the road… oh, that still bothers me!
We went to a movie and ordered a small drink to share and just about died. This is a SMALL? Are you SURE? It’s like half a gallon!
Okay, enough of me sharing my own culture shock. I should write a blog post on this… considering I practically just did!
Have FUN in the States this summer! Oh, and I totally know what you mean about the cowboy thing… our Italian friends presented us with a gift of an antique print of Native American clothing types. They are obsessed with Cowboys and Indians in Italy!
June 10th, 2010 at 6:44 am
Katie,
on the off-chance that you’ll be swinging by the ILA Berlin airshow before you go, shoot me a line–it’s right in my neck of the woods, and I’d love to meet up with you for a cup of coffee, or, considering the weather, an ice cream cone!
hoping your travels preparations go smoothly,
Larissa
June 10th, 2010 at 7:23 am
Having never been to Europe, I’m fascinated by how different things sound there! There aren’t a million brands of everything at the market? Cool!!
Looking forward to hearing all about your summer as it progresses. :)
June 10th, 2010 at 7:59 am
although i’ve never had a european mailing address, i still feel like my hubby and i lived there during our 3 week honeymoon last september.
we had to go grocery shopping, we had to work around family members’ work schedules, we went to local events (the IAA Car show was amazing!), played with school children (hubby’s cousins), we bought german toiletries, we slept in german homes and hiked through german mountains. we walked whenever and where ever we could, we took public transportation into downtown Berlin, and we ate döners! (YUMMY!) even though we visited family, we were on our own for about a week and a half of that time, just the two of us.
coming back to the states after those 3 weeks was a minor bout of culture shock. looking back now though, it wasn’t so much shock as it was a feeling of longing. i longed for the german ways to cross the ocean and become the norm here in the states. a lot of things make more sense over there (like the laws about driving, the efficiency of public transit, and the recycling efforts) even though some things make less sense (like why all the shops shut down before dinner and why my husband’s family doesn’t eat breakfast).
i miss it and i can’t wait to go back. but i’m not gonna lie: by the end of the 3 weeks, i was feeling that same way about the US.
June 10th, 2010 at 10:38 am
Can’t wait to keep following your journey!! And from living in SF, I think living in the Country would give me a bit of culture shock as well. I was totally out of my element visiting Kansas a few months ago.
June 10th, 2010 at 11:21 am
From the title of this post, I expected something else. ;)
Have a good time in the US! Indy and I were going to go in Sept, but I just don’t want to. The flight is just to long and jet lag is not my friend. It would be nice to see my family (and go to Target), but we’ll just stick it out here. My mom is coming over for Christmas and again in May for a cruise and my dad was here this past Christmas and will be back next summer. We’ll survive. It’s probably better for my debit card that I can’t go to Target. :)
When are you ever going to come to Heidelberg????
June 10th, 2010 at 11:27 am
Enjoy your time back in the States! When do you leave?
June 10th, 2010 at 12:05 pm
Yay for trips home!! I can’t wait to hear about the culture shock and the things you notice.
I haven’t been home since I left in August 2009 and probably won’t get to go there until Christmas next year. I’m soooo excited and curious to see how it will be to go home, to see everything after 15 months away, and also with the knowledge that I’m “visiting” the US, rather than living there. That will either be wonderful or awful or a little mixture of both. It’s so hard being away from friends and family, and yet I find the quality and way of life here so much better and fitting. Crazy to be of two minds all at once.
June 10th, 2010 at 2:17 pm
Katie,
You guys look great in your cowboy hats, you would fit right in here in Texas. Where in the states are you going? my guess Colorado. Dont forget all the peanut butter over here eithier. You talking about all the culture shocks remind me of what I won’t get or see anymore once I leave to move to Germany, So I am making my bucket lists of things to do , see, and get done before I move. Just like when I have moved from one state to another I am sure where ever you are there are going to be things you like and don’t like. The trick is to cue in on the good stuff. How long will you be in the states, and when are you leaving?
June 10th, 2010 at 5:20 pm
How fun! Where will you be going? If you’re headed to Denver, I know a certain frequent commenter who lives there and wouldn’t mind hitting the market or something equally fun with you!
June 10th, 2010 at 5:57 pm
How fun! Looking forward to some observations from you on that “culture shock”!
June 10th, 2010 at 8:13 pm
WOW sounds amazingly fun and such a wonderful adventure!! I can’t wait to hear all about it! Have a lovely merry happy trip and love to yoU!
June 11th, 2010 at 11:17 am
I’m sure you’ll have a great time and so will we reading all about it. We’re going back to the US for the first time in years although just a holiday not a summer. What strange timing to read this post because I have a niggling little nervous feeling that it won’t feel like home anymore.
June 11th, 2010 at 12:52 pm
Have a great time! Maybe I have missed it, or maybe it isn’t something you want to disclose, but what is Martin’s occupation? I was just wondering because I am envious that he can be gone for so long!
My son will be studying abroad in Germany beginning in September. He has been for a three week trip there before, but six months will be a culture shock.
June 11th, 2010 at 5:44 pm
Hmm, I think sniffing your tea is weird too.
June 11th, 2010 at 9:04 pm
So exciting! I would also love to hear about your cultural observations about being back in the US. If you’re anywhere near OK, let’s have some tea! (I’ve never had a cashier at Whole Foods sniff my tea, either :)
June 12th, 2010 at 5:44 pm
yay! i’m over in the US now on vacay and it’s great. weird, but great. I’ve noticed that every time I come back after a chunk of time away, the reverse culture shock gets easier and at this point in my life it’s barely noticeable. Still, I get annoyed at all the plastic grocery bags floating around, and how everything goes in ONE trash can in most places (so wasteful!), etc. However, it’s so nice to have AC in a humid area of the country, and I love playing with my little niece and really enjoyed my last two days driving across the US and seeing all the diversity we have in our homeland =) Here’s to an easier transition in 2010!
June 13th, 2010 at 8:13 pm
hope you enjoy your time in the states, and aren’t too culture shocked this time! :)
June 15th, 2010 at 9:08 pm
Good luck with your summer in the states and hopefully it won’t be too much of a culture shock for you. Good luck and have fun!