Soak Up the Sun… If You Have Any
They always say winters in northern Europe are dark and dreary. I have no idea who “they” are, but I can tell you this:
they are absolutely, 100% right.
Yesterday was the only day we’ve had blue skies ALL YEAR LONG. The sun has peeked into the city a little here and there for a few minutes. But that’s about it. Otherwise, our skies are gray day in, day out.
Berlin even broke it’s record for the longest streak of days with no sunshine. What a dreary winter!
I understand how seasonal depression could very well happen to people.
The first thing I see in outdoor photos on other blogs is all the sun and blue sky. I get jealous. What is that bright glowing glob thing?

I hardly every bring my camera with me, but I did on Tuesday. This photo (taken around 2:00 or 3:00 in the afternoon) is of a little path I discovered several kilometers from our house. I often try to think of what this path might look like in the summer and what the sidewalk looks like under the layers of ice and sand.
The city seems to sleep in a landscape of black and white. Everyone wears black, almost as if the dreary days are some sort of funeral procession. Europe, you are not so charming in the winter.
So if you have sun today, I’d urge you to go outside, lift your head, and just soak it in. Do it for all of us in Berlin and Germany.
As for those of us in gloomy places, we’re patiently waiting for summer. We’ll have our moment! I only fear we’ll all emerge from our houses and turn brighter than a Red Hot in .2 seconds because our skin won’t know what hit it. And the sun won’t know who we are either.
“Hello, Sun. Remember me? Well… I’m Kevin now.”
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So, uh, how’s the weather in your parts? It’s cloudy, right? RIGHT?! Do share. Tips for surviving gray days? Ways you avoid winter sun? Whatever it is, something tells me you might have a few winter survival tips up your sleeves – the kind that involve mittens and hot chocolate, perhaps.
Don’t laugh too hard at this old post of flying over Canyon Lands National Park in the US with some German friends. I believe my words went something like this: It’s kind of a badge of honor for Germans to go back home sunburned from a trip to America [...] I was determined to stay as white as possible.








February 18th, 2010 at 10:00 am
Wow – so it really is like that? You always hear that and yet…
I just moved from NC to Denver, CO. I’ve gone from chilly winters to c-c-c-coooooold winters…and I have had a hard time adjusting! I think there are two things getting me through right now:
- A constant supply of warm herbal tea, in a special new mug that my husband gave me – it makes me smile and I think him every time I take a sip. On particularly rough mornings or on days I deem ‘special’ I will swap the tea for a mug of warm cocoa with some hand-whipped cream on top. I freeze it in dollops and pull one out when it’s time.
- Knitting warm woolly things! I’ve been a knitter for a couple of years now and I have had a lot of fun poking through my (small) stash and finding patterns for a new ear-warmer headband thing, a neckwarmer, some gloves, and most especially some socks. I never really had much need for warm weather gear before – a coat and some leather gloves got me to and from anywhere I needed to go before. Now I can be self-sufficient, make exactly what I need exactly the way I want it, and be warm!
February 18th, 2010 at 10:00 am
we had sun today!! I felt stupid for how exciting it was to me, lol. also, when I was in the kitchen, i heard this noise and, for a second, wondered what it was. It was RAIN! The first time it’s been warm enough to actually rain and not come down as snow! Yeah, cheap thrills, lol!
February 18th, 2010 at 10:03 am
I feel for you.I really really do.
Esp. after seeing with my own eyes what a big improvement in my German friend’s (who visited us on Mardi Gras) mood did some much needed sun exposure (his words!). I used to run around him with the sunscreen that he refused to put on! Of course he turned red in no time…
I realised recently why homes in north europe that I’ve visited (like in iceland and finland and scotland) are so colorful. People do it to have an illusion of a bright day. something to cheer them up.
Hold on my friends, spring is only 30 days away!
February 18th, 2010 at 10:06 am
Spring in 30 days?! Okay. Hang on, hang on…
February 18th, 2010 at 10:23 am
I currently live in sunny Los Angeles (it’s in the 80′s here today!), but am gearing up to move to Hannover in the summer- I think the change in weather will be a huge adjustment!!! Enjoying my last weeks of blue skies and soaking up a little sun for you too! ~Lisa
February 18th, 2010 at 10:23 am
Katie,
It is funny that you brought this subject up as it has been a recent disscussion in our house. As you know we are moving to From the states to Berlin. My wife and kids are leaving on April 20th. I will be following during the next year will as we dicuss all the thing involved in the move, the thing I feat the most is not the language, not the change in culture, not the change in food, not the fear of finding work, but the winter weather. Am I crazy? We moved from Wichita ks to Dallas tx 2 1/2 years ago, partially for work but also to be in better weather. I told my wife my one fear is if I will be able to handle the long dreary winters there. Maybe part of it is because in Kansas there is nothing to do in the snow. Kansas is flat its always windy so during winter you never want to go outside. My wife says in Germany there are many thing and activities to do in the snow. I hope this is true as it may be the only thing that will keep me sane. If you or some of your fellow blog readers could tell me some of the things people in germany do in winter to entertain themselves it would really help.
As for the weather here its been crazy. Last Friday we had a all time record for snowfall in Dallas, we had 11 inches and it shut this city down. kids were kept out of school and most businesses stayed closed. I hate to admit it but I actually loved it. having lived here and not seen but a dusting of snow for the last two years this was like a present from heaven. My son got to make his first snowman in his life, I couldnt keep him inside. Kind of ironic huh? But here is the catch, this is texas and all the snow was melted by Tue. today it is sunny and 61.
February 18th, 2010 at 10:39 am
Kate- It’s a foggy mess here in San Francisco. After 6 years of living in Seattle- I feel ya. I use to do the totally unimaginable and go tanning to get me through the gray days (I was young and stupid). Now I suggest taking some Vitamin D and getting a SAD light- it totally helps. And if the sun comes out today, I’ll soak in some rays for you!
February 18th, 2010 at 10:48 am
I feel that way in Portland, Oregon. In fact, we moved away from this area when we first got married, because we wanted snow and sunshine, intead of rain and gray, but now we’re back and it’s been very dark. However, the sun came out yesterday afternoon and it was magical! It’s out again today (supposed to be sunny and 60 degrees today and tomorrow!) so I’m heading outside soon to play!
February 18th, 2010 at 11:30 am
Here in Virginia it’s sunny today, but this is on the heels of the recent snowcopalypse you might have heard about. What’s unusual about this winter for us is that we got a decent amount of snow, instead of just grayness and trees with no leaves. The snow for me really breaks up the dullness and dreariness of winter, so I’ve quite enjoyed it. However, I really can’t stand being cold, so hot herbal teas and long underwear are a staple of my every day life in winter.
February 18th, 2010 at 12:17 pm
You’ve all lifted me up. Thank you!
Eric, there are plenty of things to do in Berlin. I don’t think your family will have any problem – especially if you buy a wood sled! The Christmas spirit really distracts you from the gloomy winter, but then boom. I guess we started noticing the gloom a bit more (I also had to put up my bike.)
This frustration is only my second in my experiences here (the other was getting my visa). I have too many things to be thankful for (I think we all do), and there are just too many things to try and experience in our new city. I’m sure you will find the same. We seem to have a shortage of time more than ever before, it seems!
Katie
p.s. Juliette – you have sun in Germany??? Clearly I am in the wrong city!
February 18th, 2010 at 2:39 pm
Apparently this snow and cold is unusual for Berlin, which is good because it’s an awful lot like the winters I left back in MN! But the clouds, apparently, are normal. I bought an energy lamp this year for fear of the grey, and it has worked wonders. Also taking lots of vitamin B complex and drinking lots of hot chocolate!
But these are only temporary solutions. Like you, I’m looking forward to spring. The sun yesterday was beautiful, and it was nice that it was so warm today. Here’s looking up…
February 18th, 2010 at 5:35 pm
I feel your pain. I think we have seen the sun once or twice this year in northern Taiwan. Maybe. It has been cold and either drizzling or pouring buckets of rain here for weeks. Awhile back, the local weather forecasters predicted 49 straight days of rain. I am not sure what day we’re on, but I am definitely ready for a break! I have been drinking lots of warm, comforting drinks, making lots of soup and baked goodies, and hunkering down in front of the space heater (no central heating in this country) with the fam for lots of movies. I am really ready for some sun!
February 18th, 2010 at 8:04 pm
Sending you Tucson, Arizona sun full blast for the next 48 hours!
February 19th, 2010 at 12:36 am
To be fair, this kind of winter is not what Germany is used to. We’ve had snow from the week before Christmas until now, that is very unusual. I can’t remember a time when we had this much snow without warmer times in between. I can recommend a “Tageslichtlampe”, a very bright kind of lamp with light that is exactly like real sunlight. Not to get a tan, but to soak up the light and feel better. People with seasonal depression use it and find it helpful. About 30 Minutes in front of the lamp a day is enough.
February 19th, 2010 at 1:56 am
In southern Germany, it was a sunny and “warm” yesterday and I saw several restaurants that had put out the outdoor tables and chairs. I thought it was still a little cold to sit outside, but the sun was wonderful! It was a nice reminder that spring is just around the corner.
February 19th, 2010 at 7:42 am
Here in Norfolk,VA the sun is shining but it is still chilly. I too have been drinking lots of tea and hot chocolate to stay warm and enjoy comfort foods like chili and chicken pot pie when the weather is cold and gray.
I grew up in the Pacific NW–Oregon–where it rains 9 months out of the year. I love curling up with a good book on a rainy day– which was a good way to pass the time. You’ll find that with all that rain and gray people like brightly colored umbrellas and rain boots–little pops of color to liven up the day. You should buck the black trend and get a brightly colored coat that makes you smile. It will probably also make the people around you smile too!
February 19th, 2010 at 8:18 am
Stina, I have heard this winter is much colder and cloudier.
I haven’t ever heard of sun lamps… though we still plug in our LED Christmas lights every evening.
Mecha – I’ll take it. Every single second of it.
Tovah – my coat is red, bright bright bright red! You’re right. It does help.
Katie
February 19th, 2010 at 3:53 pm
I am in bed with pneumonia. I can see sun through my window and my thermometer says 36 degrees. I hear birds singing. A lazy airplane motored its way past, dogs are barking and a lone basket ball player next door keeps practicing. thump, thump, thump, thump. . . barump, thump, thump. . .
Maybe I should put on some warm clothes and get the mail. Vitamin D from the sun might just help me to get well faster.
Even in the winter, we sometimes bike around this town. We like to take a Subway date, bike to Subway, and stop by the Library on our way home. But if it is wet outside, we don’t have fenders on our bikes, so that would just cause a muddy stripe up our backs.
thank you, Katie for reminding me to appreciate what I normally take for granted here in the West Desert of Utah.
~a
February 20th, 2010 at 10:17 pm
oh, nice to find your blog! I lived in Luxembourg for 8 years (then france) and now in Texas…really sunny here but I miss the cold & snow so much. Here it is pretty warm and sunny year round, but so brown–never green– because it is so dry and arid. For me the northern european winters were fine-wonderful holiday season and February usually brought cold and sun. It was March and April that were the hardest for me–expecting warm spring and often it was still cold and rainy. I think getting up to the mountains during those months is the best thing to get some real sun above the cloud lines. I only got the winter blues my first year there, after that I was really fine and I miss it now and want to go back. imagine that! the culture and people are so wonderful there, even if sometimes the administrative things are a bit long and frustrating! best of luck!
February 23rd, 2010 at 4:25 am
“Do it for all of us in Berlin and Germany.”
LOL and for other Germans out there too, since the most of the country is missing some sun. I couldn’t bear it any more and went at least for a week direction sun.
February 23rd, 2010 at 10:47 am
It’s definitely like that here in northern Canada, too! And yes, we’re feeling it! I find taking Cod Liver Oil helpful – all that Vit D. And I just mixed up a batch of Chai Tea concentrate, for when I’m feeling the need for a hot, sweet cup of luxury…
Hang in there, the sun will come back!
February 25th, 2010 at 1:43 am
We have SUN this morning!
April 2nd, 2010 at 9:14 pm
Katie, your post made me smile. Why? Because I live in Las Vegas, where it’s sunny 364.5 days a year (or at least it seems like it). I grew up in the northeastern U.S., where it snowed from Halloween until Easter, and now I long for a gloomy day. So I’ll point the Las Vegas sunshine in your direction if you’ll send me a few clouds every now and then!
March 1st, 2011 at 9:49 pm
Dear All:
It is good to see that people are sharing their experience’s, it turns out to be helpful for other’s. Anyhow people I am a Pakistani and I am planning to move to germany as the economic conditions are’nt very good here..yea its unfortunate. I always had “thing” for germany since I can remeber. So I have alot of decisions to make, like for starters, which city should I land at?where could I easly find a job(which could support me initially). All your comments are welcome.
Katie: Nice smile. :)
December 14th, 2011 at 8:03 am
OMG I came across this post today, and how appropriate! I am miserable with the rain and general lack of sun. MISERABLE. I have a glimmer of hope, however, as the sun is predicted to come out again!!….in 7 days. SEVEN.