A Cute Holiday Idea

October 22nd, 2009

Who doesn’t complain about stores pushing the holiday season on us faster and faster each year?

I have to confess.  Martin and I complain.  We also already broke down and bought a Christmas item between running around to take care of this paperwork and that.  Moving overseas always requires so much paperwork.  I feel so bad because Martin has to pretty much take care of most of it for us.  My German skills are growing, but little things like returning an item to the store or telling the woman at the post office what kind of postage I want for a letter to the US are huge projects for me.  Vocabulary like “return this item” and “certified mail” aren’t really words you first learn.

Many people complain about how uptight and unfriendly Germans are compared to Americans.  I laughed so hard when a man here once said to me, “Don’t you Americans get tired of smiling all the time?”  The thing is people really are kind here, and I think they’re really patient with my German vocabulary (or lack of vocabulary!).  You don’t have to smile to be a kind person, and I think that’s so hard to forget when you grow up with smiley faces all around.  Plus it’s absolutely amazing to be around people who are Always Prompt.  It’s a society of people who are all on time.  I love it!

Anyway, I have trailed off from what I originally wanted to show you.  It’s the Christmas item we bought at the grocery store, and we’re already using it every day.

tea in germany

We got this cute little box of tea called Advent Tee.  It has 24 packages of different flavored teas with holiday names like Santa’s Secret Tee – each one numbered for a different day in December.  The best way to warm up after a chilly day of biking from errand to errand is a snack with tee.  Would you agree it’s a perfect way to warm up any time you feel the chill?

Advent calendars originated in Germany, and they’re really popular for candies and little gifts.  I could see things like Advent Tee taking off in the United States, too.

There’s nothing particularly Christmasy about these teas (other than their fun names).  In fact, I think the company just combined 24 of their different teas and made festive little wrappers.

We’re already on Day 7.

Anyone else sneaking in a little holiday stuff?  How about rapidly increasing your hot beverage consumption?  It’s so cold and wet in Berlin.  Now I see why tea and hot water bottles are all the rage in our neighborhood shops right now.

October in Germany

October 21st, 2009

southern germany

  1. If we lived in Southern Germany, I wonder if I could get Martin to wear Lederhosen while I waltz around in a Dirndl.  We could live in a small town and dress up for all of the festivals (like the one above).  We’d eat lots of fresh pretzels and roasted nuts and sing traditional drinking songs.
  2. I’d have to attempt to sew my own Drindl with this pattern.
  3. Or if we lived in the US right now, I’d make this adorable trick-or-treat bag with Christine’s easy-to-follow instructions.
  4. Then I’d be pining for a dress marked down so low at JCrew that they’d practically be giving it to me for free while Martin would be tiptoeing to the Apple Store.  I suppose there was a reason the two stores were so close in the mall we went to in Denver.
  5. Of course, we’re in neither place – not Southern Germany, not the US.  That’s why we’re keeping busy with other things.  Like taking quiet autumn pictures like this:

scooter

What is your end of October like?  Are you finding quiet moments to embrace?  Are you lusting for anything?  (I love the look on the man’s face in the top picture, far right.)

(Images for Making This Home)

How to Sound Smart: Superfluous Words Edition

October 20th, 2009

I’m sorry to say that I can offer no tips in sounding smart in German.  My communication skills involve a lot of hand gestures and a sad plea to have people speak slower please. “Langsom, bitte.” I dream of being fluent or at least semi-fluent one day.  But until then, no German language tidbits from me.  Yeah?

What I can offer you are a few tips in English for sounding like someone who knows what she’s talking about.  Well actually one is French.  Two English and one French.  The theme is unnecessary words.  You ready?

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1.  Please RSVP

Most people might not catch that the phrase “Please RSVP” is redundant.  RSVP means “Répondez s’il vous plaît“.  Just looking at the words, you can see that the general gist of the phrase is “respond please”.  So with the holiday season fast approaching, double check the invitations you’re sending out.  Your relatives might already have enough things to nitpick you about without a request to ”Please respond please.”

wedding invitation

2.  LCD Display

If you’re like me, conversations about LCDs don’t exactly come up very often.  But if you’re around a techy person, LCDs are what it’s all about.  To these guys, LCDs are to gizmos what whipped cream is to your hot chocolate.  LCD stands for “liquid crystal display“.  It’s a common thin, flat panel that displays information like images and movies.  If you have a new computer or cell phone, your screen may be an LCD.  The problem is that saying “LCD display” is as redundant as “Please RSVP.”  You’d be saying “Liquid Crystal Display Display.”  Oops.

iphone

3.  PIN Number

I might as well confess that I am working really hard on not saying “PIN Number”.  Why?  PIN = Personal Identification Number.  So I’m walking around, showing off my RSVP and LCD skills only to blurt out “Personal Identification Number Number”.  Well that and my butchered German!

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Know any other redundancies we say without knowing?  Or are you like me and always slipping on any of the ones above?  Tell me I’m not the only one!

If you’re thinking, “Gosh, these posts really do make me sound smart,” swing by the others in this series for a brainy good time: The Motors vs. Engines Edition and The Hardwood Floors & Tablesaws Edition.

(Images from Flickr)

A Simpler Home: Do More by Hand

October 19th, 2009

Sometimes I make things harder. We have so many tools and technologies to make everything easier – from grating cheese with a machine to taking pictures of facts and signs on buildings instead of writing them out by hand.  Sometimes these shortcuts are fantastic.  Other times, they can actually complicate our lives.  Too many shortcuts can clutter our homes and lives, lead to debt, use more resources…  Sometimes they don’t make life easier at all.

I would never suggest throwing everything out.  But I’d gladly argue that sometimes a little less is better.

berlin autumn

Moving to Germany taught me this.  The average German works 400 hours less than the average American every year.  They also walk and ride bikes to run errands or get somewhere instead of always turning to a car.  It’s amazing how much less our neighbors consume here because they have to carry everything up stairs and over to their little apartments.  No one I’ve seen seems self-conscious about carrying toilet paper on the subway.

autumn market

Sure it’s harder to do things like grate cheese by hand.  Yet consider for a moment what consequences come from making everything easier and faster.  Then consider benefits from doing things “the hard way”.  Here are some switches to get you thinking.  Please feel free to share your own additions.

  • Try skipping the microwave. Try warming more foods on the stove or in the oven.  Melt butter on the stovetop like grandma did.  Or make popcorn on the stove.
  • Bake your own cookies instead of buying store-bought cookies with unrecognizable ingredients and preservatives.
  • Walk somewhere instead of drive – even if it’s the mailbox at the end of the block.
  • Use your hands.  In the places where you most use machines and gadgets, try using your hands.
  • Write letters.  Emails are quick and simple, but no one’s heart leaps quite so much as when there’s a letter in the mailbox.
  • Spend time with family. Don’t make that time about running errands or watching favorite shows.  Make it about knowing each other.
  • Make things for your home and family.  If you can sew, make dishtowels or patch clothes.  If you work with clay, make mugs and bowls.  Make crafts to decorate your home.  Guaranteed – these items will be the most turned to and most treasured.
  • Share time with friends.  Invite friends to join you during day-to-day activities.  Make food together.  Invite them over for dessert.  Every friendship grows stronger when you can do things in person.
  • Wear clothes more. Run the washing machine less.
  • A simpler life really can be the good life.

    Have any simple suggestions that come to mind?  Tricks for the kitchen?  Tidbits for around town?  We’ll drink up whatever you have to share.

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    Craving a few more tips on creating a simpler life?  We’ve got a whole slew of ideas for you on the page, “A Simpler Life”.

    Votes for Women in This German Town

    October 16th, 2009

    If you ever thought the days of chivalry and “women and children first” were over, you just have to see something we spotted.

    On one of my first visits to Germany, Martin and I were visiting a small tourist town where some of his family friends lived.  I spotted this sign and couldn’t believe it:

    women-first

    The best parking spots were reserved for women and people with kids!  Why don’t we have this everywhere?  It could make things so much simpler for young families and women who must return unaccompanied to their cars after dark.

    women-first-2

    Does the government or the people in your community reach out to make life a little easier for one another?  I certainly love a good day of people holding open doors for each other and letting someone else go first at the checkout, don’t you?  This town just takes the cake.

    (Images by Martin for Making This Home)

    Why I’m Vegetarian

    October 15th, 2009

    On our last weekend in the United States this summer, Martin and I met up with my family in a small, rural town to say our goodbyes.  Main Street and about three other streets were paved.  The rest of the town was gravel road.  Fields of crops and grazing cattle dotted the landscape between the enormous mountains hugging the valley where the little town sat.

    We went to the local cafe for lunch.  They sold local ice cream (by local, I mean made within a 150 mile radius).  So surely their hamburger patties would come from local meat.  We asked our waiter.  He was a Polish college student; he’d seen all the cattle just a mile from the cafe, too.  ”Where else would the beef come from?” he asked.  That’s what we wondered.

    end of summer lake

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    Today’s American meat industry scares me to death.  The hamburgers at that little cafe weren’t from local beef.  They were from an enormous food distributor who purchases meat from all over the United States and all over the world.  That meat gets blended together, pressed into patties, and shipped hundreds or thousands of miles to restaurants and grocery stores.  The more Martin and I read about it, the more we want to keep being vegetarians.  The more we hear about meat recalls and contaminations, the more tofu we reach for.  I don’t want to tell you why I think you should all be vegetarians.  Our diets and food choices are decisions we all have to make on our own. At the same time, I’ve gotten countless questions about why our household is vegetarian and what it means to us.

    So here you go – in honor of Blog Action Day’s stance against climate change – our reason for being vegetarian.

    It’s all about the environment.

    I grew up fishing and hunting.  I also grew up with cattle grazing everywhere we went.  That’s the great thing about living in “rural” America, out in the Rocky Mountains.  It never occurred to me that animals could live any other way than how I saw them on a regular basis.

    dorm in virginia

    Fast forward to my junior year of college.  I had just transferred schools to a small school in Virginia and was sitting down with my cafeteria tray for lunch.  (That picture is of my dorm.)  I’d been eating less and less meat – partly to challenge myself and partly because it was supposed to be healthier.  When I bit into my hamburger, it tasted a little strange.  It was supposed to be beef, of course.  But that’s not what it tasted like.

    “Do these burgers taste funny to you?” I asked my friends.

    “No,” they mumbed back with full mouths.

    I was already the country girl of the group of Southern and East Coast girls, and I knew they’d think I was crazy.  I took another bite, thought about how my hamburger tasted, and chose my next words carefully.  ”This hamburger doesn’t taste like beef.  I mean…”  I sipped whatever I was drinking that day.  ”It sort of tastes like deer.”

    I don’t have to tell you what happened next.  They thought I wasn’t just crazy.  I was insane.  Who knows what deer meat tastes like?

    I never finished that hamburger.  It made me so scared.  What was I eating?  That was the day I seriously began questioning commercial meat products.  And slowly, I became vegetarian.  At first vegetarianism consisted of frozen veggie burgers and processed vegetarian substitutes.  I grew up eating meat, and I didn’t know how to replace it yet.  I kept practicing over the stove, and now I can’t even imagine wanting to reach for a vegetarian hotdog.  (Here’s a link to our list of favorite vegetarian cookbooks.)

    I was dating Martin at the time when I discovered my “deer” burger.  He only ate ethically raised meat for a while, then he switched, too.  Now we try to cut out a lot of dairy products and only buy local or organic if we can.  We loved reading about how a vegetarian driving a Hummer actually is better for the environment than a meat eater who bikes everywhere.

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    Figuring out what you stand for doesn’t happen over night. Each person is unique, and your perspective changes with experience.

    For example, sometimes we’ll make a rare exception and eat meat.  If my grandma tries to make a vegetarian meal and uses chicken broth, not realizing it is animal-based broth, I won’t throw up my arms and get upset.  I don’t even point it out to her because I know she’s trying to accommodate us.  And when my six-year-old cousin catches a fish from the same lake where I used to fish at his age, we’ll probably eat some.  (That’s me fishing in the picture below – I was so little!)

    katie fishing

    I absolutely do not believe in wasting food. Refusing food because it has an animal product (such as on a commercial flight where we always ask for vegan food) doesn’t make sense to me personally.  I’m not going to send my pizza back to be thrown away because they accidentally sprinkled chicken on it when we requested vegetarian; I can pick it off.  Someone in the group will probably eat my share.  But if we refused to accept that pizza, the food goes in the garbage.  Waste is even worse for the environment.

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    According to a 2006 United Nations initiative, our livestock industry is one of the top two or three largest contributors to environmental degradation worldwide.

    Animals raised for consumption are not treated well.  I know there are exceptions, but they’re so very few.  Many chickens often spend their entire lives in cages no bigger than a piece of paper.  They never even get to experience the feeling of stretching out their wings.  Turkeys have been so modified to fill our Thanksgiving tables that they can’t reproduce by themselves.  Humans have to do it for them.  And one pound of beef – which probably is factory-farm meat – requires 2,400 gallons of water and seven pounds of grain to produce.  Imagine how many people could be fed with that much grain and how that water could be used or untouched.

    My favorite scout camp was located downstream of a cattle ranch.  The water was too dangerous for us to drink or do our dishes.  We had to haul drinking water 30 miles from town to feed the camp.  But we were lucky.  Some communities near animal production facilities like this one reported in the NY Times have polluted water, air so rancid people develop lung problems… It just goes on and on.

    I’m going to step off that soapbox though.  If you’re trying to figure out where you want to stand on the environment or our food culture, I would with trumpets blaring suggest the following three books. We’re read dozens of books on the topic.  These three have touched our lives.  They have changed us.

    1. Mad Cowboy: Plain Truth from the Cattle Rancher Who Won’t Eat Meat
    2. Animal, Vegetable, Miracle:  A Year of Food Life
    3. The Way We Eat:  Why Our Food Choices Matter

    Please note that these three books are linked to our affiliate partnership with Amazon.  If you are interested in purchasing these books, please consider going through these links to help us out.  Our English book budget and access have seriously shrunk in Germany.

    If you have an opinion about food and the environment or a book or article that has really changed the way you look at these things, please share.  We already have a little list of new vegetables to try at the grocery store over the next few weeks thanks to your suggestions.