Learning to Fly
I don’t remember the first time Martin proposed that I get a pilot’s license. My answer was probably something like, “Yeah, I should do that some day.” Then I’d probably change the subject because it wasn’t really something I thought of doing before falling in love with a pilot. We did a few flight lessons here and there. I caught on to the left/right turning with my hands and feet a little. It was the up/down that was happening at the same time that made my stomach feel like it was in my throat. That up/down feeling in my stomach was probably the biggest factor in my plans to learn to fly SOME day but not TOday.
Martin liked to put his arm around the back of my chair. When I did really well during those lessons, Martin kissed my cheek. I asked if he did that with all of his students.
But most of the time we went flying I was not learning how. I was busy taking on this role. I was very good at it:
The elevation always knocked me out. I tried my hardest to stay awake, but just like when you take commercial flights, I got worn out. Yep. It was jetlag in a bitty plane.
Then we got married. We didn’t fly much.
Then we moved to Germany. We didn’t fly at all.
Now that we’re back in the US, and I’m going to learn to fly, I am beyond excited. I’ll share my experiences with you about once a week because while flying and a blog about creating a home don’t exactly blend seamlessly, I would very much like to share what I’m learning and seeing with all of you. When Martin and I used to be at small airports, no one ever expected that I was a pilot. They figured Martin was the pilot for one basic reason: I’m a girl; he’s a guy. Aviation is dominated by men. (Remember that picture I showed you about women flying?) I could never even count how many pilots I have met since Martin and I started dating. NONE of them have ever been women. One may have sounded a little girly, but that’s as close as I’ve seen.
Most pilots learn how to fly at professional schools around the country with flight simulators and large classrooms. I’m going to learn to fly on a gravel runway. My classroom will be the little hangar that smells like oil and our kitchen table, which is why I think it’ll be such an interesting adventure to share with all of you.
Martin is going to teach me along with help from his original teacher (the owner of the airport), so to be perfectly honest, we’re not sure what my biggest challenge is going to be:
- learning to fly
- learning to do what my instructor – my husband – tells me without arguing and without telling him to quit being so dang bossy
I am very excited and very nervous at the same time. Very soon, it’s going to be time for Martin and me to switch places.
It’ll be the girl in the captain’s seat from now on.










April 30th, 2009 at 5:20 am
I’m so excited for you – what an amazing summer you’re going to have. As you know, my dad’s a private pilot too and I just love small planes. There’s a couple who lives across the street from us – both husband AND wife are pilots! They do exist. :) Good luck Katie!!!
April 30th, 2009 at 10:41 am
Ah, learning to fly. What a wonderful adventure, and thanks for sharing it with us. I learned to fly many years ago, but never got my license. My husband, meanwhile got all kinds of ratings and even instructed. And we had many happy times flying our Mooney around the states and Mexico. I can hardly wait to hear how it all goes.
Laura
April 30th, 2009 at 11:21 am
What an adventure to take on- both my hd and my son fly- My son teaches at IFTA he has been flying since he was 11-
I get very air sick so it’s not for me- but way to go girl- good luck
April 30th, 2009 at 12:04 pm
Hi Katie! Followed your comments on Jen’s world. What an effort you guys did on the kitchen in Germany! And how cool to learn how to fly! How’s the view up there? (that’s a blog request…)
Warm greetings from West Africa!
Esther
April 30th, 2009 at 4:41 pm
This is awesome! Can’t wait to follow your progress!
April 30th, 2009 at 5:03 pm
That’s awesome you are going to learn how to fly!
April 30th, 2009 at 5:50 pm
That is so exciting! My stepmother got her pilot’s license about 2 years ago, and I’ve been flying with her several times. So cool!
April 30th, 2009 at 6:32 pm
I sure hope your biggest challenge isn’t staying awake while flying!! I can’t wait to hear about it all!! So exciting!
April 30th, 2009 at 9:17 pm
I always wanted to learn too. I have a friend, who when she found out she had cancer decided to get her license. She used it to fly to her doctor appointments in Illinois. She lived in Colorado. I don’t know why, but she got it, she overcame the cancer and flew ever since, until she crashed it one day and they cannot afford to purchase a new plane. But she used to fly to the bride’s house for a fitting of the dress she was making. I got to fly with her once. I love it.
my daddy used to be a pilot and I remember flying with him when I was small. He had to sell his half of the plane when the other owner decided to sell his half. Daddy couldn’t afford to buy him out.
Good luck with this adventure and I am so glad you are sharing with us.
~a
April 30th, 2009 at 11:10 pm
You are a brave, brave woman. I HATE to fly. Not because I ‘m afraid. I get terribly airsick. It’s horrible. I do look forward to living vicariously through your adventures.
When you get back to Berlin, you should check out this group:
http://www.protopage.com/garten-rosarose
They are “gorilla gardeners” who go out in the evening and plant pretty things in neglected areas of Berlin. How cool is that?
April 30th, 2009 at 11:53 pm
Sounds like it will be a great experience! Have a wonderful summer!
May 2nd, 2009 at 5:33 pm
You are VERY brave! But it does sound like so much fun. You’ve got to make sure you keep us posted on how it goes! :)
May 3rd, 2009 at 2:19 am
That’s AWESOME!!! My husband is also a pilot (his undergrad is in aviation before he went on to conquer the business world) and he’s always said I should learn to fly too! I envy you taking the step and doing it!!!! I can’t wait to hear how it goes!
May 14th, 2009 at 10:47 pm
Hi. I was just surfing around some blogs, and I came across yours. It’s pretty nifty and I’m really enjoying my stay here. I’ve bookmarked your site for daily visits, and I hope you’ll visit me. I’d love to have you. :) Have a great day and I’ll see you around the blogosphere. :)
May 19th, 2009 at 8:16 am
I love this! What an ambitious and exciting thing to do. Good for you for making someday now.