A Simpler Life Series: Just Be
It takes bravery to be simple. The internet, our favorite stores, and magazines are filled with so many beautiful things. I don’t know about you, but sometimes it’s so easy to feel depressed because home and life don’t match the grandiose things I see in other places. Through A Simpler Life Series, we’ve talked about so many things (like letting in fresh air and eliminating paperwork). Why not take this week to be thankful for what we do have? What if we spent just a little time embracing ourselves?
By trying to embrace the life you have instead of focusing on all the things you aren’t and that you don’t have, you can keep a simpler, happier life. You can begin to feel an appreciation of the natural gifts in your life. One of the best ways to do this is to go on a walk. Company is nice. Being lost in your own thoughts is nicer.
When I used to walk home from German class, I always listened to audiobooks on my iPod. Other times, I would be reviewing flash cards. I thought that I had to multitask and make my walks worth my time. It’s funny to think back on those walks now. I was surrounded by German culture, and instead of embracing it, I was listening to English stories. I wasn’t speaking to people; I was hiding behind a list of words I thought I had to know first. The day I pulled out my earbuds began the greatest transformation. I began embracing the simple details of the community around me.
I suppose this point of this article would be a good spot to post a pretty picture. But as I think about a simple, pleasure-filled life, I don’t think of a simple looking space that has been polished and arranged to look simple. Sometimes those images only overwhelm my sense of simplicity even more.
Instead all I can think about is these three guys near the UBahn (subway). This little street bands knows something about happiness.
Guard what you value, and try to embrace who you are–flaws and all. So life isn’t perfect. That doesn’t mean it isn’t beautiful. Think of the beautiful colors the dirty laundry creates on the floor. Feel the breeze. Touch the texture on your keyboard.
Promise that you’ll take time today to take a deep breath and savor the simple beauty in your life. And please, share your thoughts on how you find your happiness and truly Just Be.
If you’d like to read more thoughts on embracing life, you might like these posts: Get Lost on Purpose and Hold onto the Senses of Smell and Touch.









April 21st, 2009 at 4:35 am
Katie, God is perfection, right? He made us, each of us, to fulfill a purpose. Because we are here, because He made us, we are perfect as we are. Sometimes I think that, if we would all stop worrying about others judging us, and we would focus on our divine purpose….the entire world would be simpler. Banishing ego, eradicating selfishness, boosting self-esteem…some of steps to a simpler, happier existence. :)
April 21st, 2009 at 6:53 am
Hanging out with F all day really forces me to just be present and not worry about what has happened, or might happen. Having a child has totally helped me just be! I love it!
April 21st, 2009 at 6:59 am
This really isn’t all that hard for me right now. For one thing, it’s spring! Nothing else inspires me to slow down and breathe like watching nature explode. For another thing, I have two small children. If I can’t slow down and embrace what is, I will surely go crazy. Kids are amazing like that, they sort of force you to get over yourself and get some perspective. ;)
April 21st, 2009 at 10:15 am
I enjoy walking and taking in the surroundings! Love your post!
~Kim
April 21st, 2009 at 10:40 am
A great post, Katie. I agree with PJ. And with Christy – there’s nothing like being around children to help me focus on the present. :0)
April 21st, 2009 at 10:52 am
I simply love walking a mile to school. This time of year is especially wonderful because the flowers are beginning to bloom. Within a few weeks here, the trees will be blooming also. Walking alone or with someone, on a purpose or simply strolling, this is one of my favorite things to do. Thank you for the post!
April 21st, 2009 at 12:26 pm
I used to stress out whenever my boys left a mess of toys in one of the rooms. Now I try to remember that there will come a time when they go off to college and I’ll miss the clutter and the sound of their laughter and happy chatter. It makes me appreciate the here and now rather than striving for some unattainable standard of perfection.
April 21st, 2009 at 1:19 pm
I know exactly what you’re talking about. I always feel like I have to be doing more than one thing. I can’t watch TV or listen unless I’m also on my computer or reading a book. If I do, I feel like I’m wasting time. If I’m in my car, I feel like I should be listening to a book or language cd’s. My mind is constantly on what else I could be doing instead of what I’m doing then and there. I’m trying to correct that though. Thanks for the reminder.
Now, when are we going to find out what you’re doing this summer??????
April 21st, 2009 at 5:34 pm
Thank you for the insight. . .I too look around at all the beautiful homes and things that others have, and feel that I don’t have enough. It can be difficult, but I am trying to enjoy the wonderful things I do have!
April 21st, 2009 at 6:44 pm
hi Katie,
I’ve been very aware of this lately. I’ve become aware that multi-tasking takes me OUT of the moment. As the mom of two small children, it’s how I’ve learned to cope. But honestly, I don’t think it has to be done like this. This week, I’ve been trying to single-task. I’ve got to tell you…it doesn’t come naturally, but I’m being diligent about trying.
April 21st, 2009 at 8:20 pm
I totally took a photo of my load of pink laundry a few weeks ago…seriously, the entire load was pink. I hear you on the simply gifts!! Great post! So relevant. Thank you for linking up and for sharing the importance of embracing a simpler life. No multi-tasking required.
April 22nd, 2009 at 4:43 am
When we first moved to Germany I took a walk everyday in our small village to discover and enjoy all of the new things around us. I still find taking a walk in the sunshine is the best way to relax and slow down, and it’s also a great time to catch up with my husband and have a long conversation.
April 22nd, 2009 at 11:55 am
Katie,
I have to say that I LOVE your open your windows post. I reread that in today’s post and I literally stopped and went to go and take off the winter plastic off of all of my windows and install the screen in the back door so that I could let the beautiful spring air into my apt.
Thanks so much for the inspiration!
I’m also slowly buying greener cleaning products. Just picked up these reusable sponges… we’ll see how they survive their first washing, but so far I like them :)