A Round of Thank Yous

January 25th, 2009

Time slips away.  We watch babies grow and trees loose their leaves.  It all moves so quickly.  Something I haven’t been watching very well are the awards that some of my blogging buddies have given me.  Forgive me for being so far behind, ladies.  I appreciate that you would think of me and challenge me with a few thoughts.

This cute butterfly flew to Making This Home from ~LL~:

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Then Christy dared me to list seven things about myself, so here goes:

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1. I’m a vegetarian.
2. The only exception was on Christmas Eve when I tried the traditional Czech dinner of carp.
3. I won’t eat carp again.
4. One of my favorite things to do as a kid was go fishing with my dad.
5. My dad is my hero.
6. So is Jeanette Rankin, the first woman in Congress.
7. And so is my mom.  She’s the one that made me take a typing class.

Ivanhoe gave me some very cool blog love.  (She’s not big on the carp, either.)

blogloveAnd Jen asked me to list six unspectacular things about myself.  Here ya go, Jen:

1. I have blond hair.
2. I have blue eyes.
3. These things make me look very German.
4. …so people always ask me for directions.  In German.
5. Martin has to jump into the conversation so that the person can get the right answer before the train arrives.
6. …unless it’s a tourist from outside of Germany.  My German AND my English are better than theirs, and I can help.

This Ro(a)mantic Life gave me this Inspiration Award, and oh how I love this image.

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Finally Sandra gave me an award that says… well I have no clue!  All I can tell you is that it’s not German, and I like that.

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Thank you all.  It’s been wonderful.  Now I’m so fearful that I have forgotten someone, and I’m so so sorry if I have.  Will a piece of German chocolate make up for it?

I was always a blog lurker… so for those of you who come here and don’t leave comments:  thank you, too.  I appreciate your interest.  I can’t wait for the start of a new, beautiful week.

Holding onto the Senses of Touch and Smell

January 24th, 2009

We live in such a digital age that it’s easy to find ourselves touching nothing but our computers and cell phones for hours.  Our day rolls on, and without knowing it, we might forget what organic textures feel like or the candle we lit several hours ago smells like. 

I feel very lucky on the days Martin and I are hauling pieces of wood into our house.  I rub my fingers across the grains and await the table saw.  The saw’s scream is awful, but the fresh wood aroma  that fills our house is magic even when I don’t remember to look for it.  It reminds me of home.

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A lot of things – a lot of senses – remind me of the place we lived in the United States, and whenever it is cold and yucky, I always think of them.  I want to tear down the plastic tarp that divides our house and find a huge blanket to snuggle in.  Handmade blankets are always the perfect way to rediscover the very basic beauty in our lives.  In the US, I love the quilt my mom and grandma made together when my mom was learning how to sew.  It is red and white and completely falling apart; I rub my fingers across it and burry myself in its folds.

Martin and I do not have anything like that in Berlin yet.  We don’t have access to our taped up boxes in the US that are filled with our carefully labeled keepsakes, and it is very odd to live day to day in a place that is my HOME but has none of the things that I’ve carefully chosen and treasured over the years.

It isn’t that I want to merely look at these things.  I want to feel them and smell them.  And I think we could all find a little pleasure in the feel of things away from our computers a little more often.

Being women grants us the best opportunity.  We can bake cakes and roll out cookies without any objection. We can walk through shops and touch as many items as we want and smell every candle.  And no one worries when we bundle up in those old beautiful quilts and inhale our peppermint tea before we bring it to our lips.

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I picked two personal picture to include today.  These are my grandma’s hands.  She taught my mom and thereby me about valuing the simple things in our lives.  I was spoiled by her homemade applesauce long before I knew how to make my own.  And above, she is showing me how to sew badges onto my Girl Scout vest from years ago and harvesting rhubarb with my brother.  What I wouldn’t give to feel her perfect stitches or smell her kitchen.

This weekend, I urge you to feel the pieces that make your home and the curtains that keep out the dark.  Touch the heirloom jewelry and wedding cake toppers.  And smell those beautiful quilts.  It’s easy to forget these meaningful items as we turn to our computers so readily.

(Image by Katie for Making This Home; shared with Emma Calls me Mama because the only heirlooms I have here are memories)

Watching the Water Meter & Forgetting to Breathe

January 23rd, 2009

As requested, I’m back with some more of the nitty gritty about our kitchen remodel and what the heck we’ve got in here.  Today?  These odd-ball fellas above our faucet:

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Those ugly things are our water meters.  One measures hot; one measures cold.  We also have another pair in the bathroom to measure our water usage in there, too.

Now when I came to Germany, these little suckers had to be the most stressful thing in our original kitchen.  I could sort of handle the lack of counters, the non-existant storage, and the oven that leaked heat so that I needed a hotpad to open the fridge.  But I could NOT handle doing dishes right next to those meters.  What girl could?  Those water meters are showing my consumption to the liter.  The LITER!   (That’s 4.2 cups for those of you not freaking out yet.)

Do you have any idea what it’s like to think of your shower in terms of liters?  It’s in and out, baby.  No hot, relaxing morning wake ups.  I began drinking coffee.

The worst part is that I’ve read about American families in Germany who think they’re being frugal only to get a 1,000 euro bill ($1,300) for the extra water and heat they were consuming above the building’s average.  You pay a flat fee toward your water and electricity in Germany each month.  At the end of the year, your meters are read, and it is determined if you owe more or get money back.

I consider myself fairly conservative  about our resources (“hippy” my brother would say) compared to most Americans, but I’m still an American.  I’m used to gas costing less than $3 a gallon (it’s around $9 here), houses being huge, and every other enormous thing that comes with the American Dream… and one of those is certainly not a water meter that measures anything under 10,000 gallons.
(Image by Katie for Making This Home)