Holding onto the Senses of Touch and Smell

We live in such a digital age that it’s easy to find ourselves touching nothing but our computers and cell phones for hours.  Our day rolls on, and without knowing it, we might forget what organic textures feel like or the candle we lit several hours ago smells like. 

I feel very lucky on the days Martin and I are hauling pieces of wood into our house.  I rub my fingers across the grains and await the table saw.  The saw’s scream is awful, but the fresh wood aroma  that fills our house is magic even when I don’t remember to look for it.  It reminds me of home.

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A lot of things – a lot of senses – remind me of the place we lived in the United States, and whenever it is cold and yucky, I always think of them.  I want to tear down the plastic tarp that divides our house and find a huge blanket to snuggle in.  Handmade blankets are always the perfect way to rediscover the very basic beauty in our lives.  In the US, I love the quilt my mom and grandma made together when my mom was learning how to sew.  It is red and white and completely falling apart; I rub my fingers across it and burry myself in its folds.

Martin and I do not have anything like that in Berlin yet.  We don’t have access to our taped up boxes in the US that are filled with our carefully labeled keepsakes, and it is very odd to live day to day in a place that is my HOME but has none of the things that I’ve carefully chosen and treasured over the years.

It isn’t that I want to merely look at these things.  I want to feel them and smell them.  And I think we could all find a little pleasure in the feel of things away from our computers a little more often.

Being women grants us the best opportunity.  We can bake cakes and roll out cookies without any objection. We can walk through shops and touch as many items as we want and smell every candle.  And no one worries when we bundle up in those old beautiful quilts and inhale our peppermint tea before we bring it to our lips.

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I picked two personal picture to include today.  These are my grandma’s hands.  She taught my mom and thereby me about valuing the simple things in our lives.  I was spoiled by her homemade applesauce long before I knew how to make my own.  And above, she is showing me how to sew badges onto my Girl Scout vest from years ago and harvesting rhubarb with my brother.  What I wouldn’t give to feel her perfect stitches or smell her kitchen.

This weekend, I urge you to feel the pieces that make your home and the curtains that keep out the dark.  Touch the heirloom jewelry and wedding cake toppers.  And smell those beautiful quilts.  It’s easy to forget these meaningful items as we turn to our computers so readily.

(Image by Katie for Making This Home; shared with Emma Calls me Mama because the only heirlooms I have here are memories)